How To Get What You Want

The indispensable first step to getting the things
you want out of life is this:decide what you want.

Ben Stein

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Do you keep hearing the stories of people who became successful overnight, it seems? Yet for you , it seems
to be a constant battle?

You can’t go to sleep at night because you feel like your
life is one struggle after another and you can’t seem to pinpoint WHY

this is happening. I know the feeling oh too well. Not a good feeling at all I might add. I remember some time
ago thinking I just was one of those people

who are not meant to be successful in life. But Why? I was faithful
in doing the things I was told to do to become successful! (more…)

How do you feel when you think about failure? Do you come up with feelings like unlovable, unsuccessful, unworthy, or inadequate? Sadly, but these are the thoughts of many . The reason being is we have learned from our past programming to link failure to the value we place on ourselves as a person.

Most people believe they should become successful in their work, relationships or any endeavor at the first attempt. The truth is everyone encounters many failures before they are successful. Napoleon Hill tells of many defeats of some of the most admired and successful people the world has ever known.

Take Thomas Edison for example, the inventor of the electric light bulb and many other inventions. On his road to developing the light bulb it’s noted that he attempted over 10,000 times before it was a success. Interestingly enough, Edison didn’t look upon it as failure. He quoted “I have not failed, I’ve found 10,000 ways that won’t work”. He wasn’t afraid of failure nor did he view himself as inadequate. Had he done so, he would not have been the creator of the light bulb. We can all learn this powerful lesson from Edison.

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